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In Between The Lines ~: ~ 1st Day of Spring

Saturday, March 20th, 2010

Every night on Facebook, I ask the above question. It’s amazing to me how truly powerful being grateful is. I have learned and loved the shares received by so many from that question each night. and what is interesting is that the comments given aren’t from something huge – but from small and simple, yet profound and meaningful things in life: “watching my children sleep” … “re-connecting with a long lost friend” … “a helping hand” … the list goes on….

So! to keep up the habit, I’m going to post my gratitudes on here – when I can and I invite you to as well. one of my most favorite quotes on gratitude is:

“Gratitude is the axe for the frozen sea inside us.”

Yes, it truly is. Give it a try and you will believe for yourself!

2-25-10: It’s been awhile since I posted my Gratitude here. I do every night on FB and if I remember, in my Gratitude Journal…anyway – today I am grateful for constant 2nd chances to make things right. and that a loving Father in Heaven never gives up on me to try one more time. : )

2-8-10: Grateful for dear friends, family & support! : )

2-2-10: Today, my gratitude is photography – memories – inspiration and forever families.

2-1-10: Today I am super grateful that January is over. Also, our family night spent together this evening – sharing, discussing major decisions. and I’m truly grateful for the best friends on this side of heaven anyone could ever have!

1-18-10 Today got my house cleaned up and everything put back from Christmas. but the best thing is meeting up w/one of my life-long friends for over 23 years w/her kids and ours! great visiting – love them so much!! : )

1-17-10 Grateful for the rain we are receiving and also time spent with some really good friends as a family tonight! It’s moments like these that truly make me grateful for what’s most important in my life … what truly matters.

1-14-10 I am truly grateful for connecting with dear family and friends thru our amazing technology we have today – whether it be text, email, Facebook or the “old school” way … the telephone. Love that there can be a thousand miles distance, yet only a button away on the computer or the phone!

1-13-10 Today I am grateful for the drizzly cozy weather, amazing clouds in the sky, my camera and how much my family loved my homemade creamy chicken/potato/veggie soup! : )

We Got Next: How the NHL Can Use the Olympics to Repair Their Image

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

Unless you’ve recently taken up a habit of sticking your fingers in your ears and shouting “lalalalalalalala,” you’ve probably heard about Canada’s victory over the United States in Sunday’s gold medal game for men’s hockey. Zach Parise scored a goal with 24 seconds to go in the third period to force overtime, after which Sidney Crosby slid the puck past goalie Ryan Miller to win the game for Canada in front of a delirious crowd. An estimated 34.8 million Americans tuned in to cheer their team on, the most to watch any hockey game since the gold medal game in 1980.

For at least one night, America was passionate – passionate! – about hockey.

This should be a gigantic opportunity for the NHL, a league with sagging attendance, a limited fan base, and a badly damaged public image after the 2004-2005 lockout that saw the disappearance of an entire season. For the first time in a long time, people were excited about hockey. Shouldn’t the league be all over this? Shouldn’t they be herding us toward exciting games like last night’s Red Wings-Avalanche tilt?

No, of course not. the marketing geniuses that brought you the cancellation of an entire season and prevented the Stanley Cup from being awarded for the first time since 1919 (when an outbreak of influenza forced an early end to the finals after five games) not only aren’t promoting their product, they’re actively destroying their brand’s image. NHL commissioner Gary Bettman is still debating whether or not he wants his players competing in the 2014 Olympics. since the overwhelming majority of Olympic men’s hockey players also play in the NHL, prohibiting them from competing would effectively kill any chance of seeing a game with the level of talent we saw on Sunday ever again in the Olympics.

Canada’s Sidney Crosby – “The next One” – could be the key to bringing the NHL back from the brink.

Now, I understand Bettman’s point. in order to allow NHL players to compete in the Olympics, the league has to take an extended break. without any games, there aren’t any ticket sales, which is tough to stomach for a team already hurting for revenue. I get that. but couldn’t he have chosen a different time to say this? following up one of the greatest hockey games of all time with hand-wringing over finances doesn’t come off seeming prudent. It feels miserly.

It doesn’t help that the league, though having incredibly talented players, is at its most diluted in years. Years of expansion have turned a competitive league into an afterthought, featuring new teams in warm-weather markets like Phoenix, Atlanta, Carolina, and Nashville. Team names like the Coyotes, Thrashers, Hurricanes, and Predators don’t exactly make one think of hockey.

So if you want to save the NHL, I say trim the fat away. Warm-weather teams? You’re gone. That means San Jose, Anaheim, Los Angeles, Phoenix, Dallas, Atlanta, Nashville, Charlotte, Tampa, and Miami bringing us down to a manageable 20 teams. That leaves us with more talented teams that people can actually get behind. It also almost guarantees a big-name player on each team, which brings me to my second point: the NHL needs to promote its stars. Crosby is already one of the league’s biggest names, but what about Ryan Miller? I actively follow most sports so I can write articles here, and I hadn’t heard of him before last week. in fact, I didn’t know what team he played for until I looked it up just now. (Fact: Miller plays for the Buffalo Sabres.)

On top of Crosby and Miller, the NHL has a huge star in Alex Ovechkin, the two-time defending MVP. Ovechkin and Crosby already have a rivalry building, having met in last year’s Eastern Conference playoffs (featuring the Pittsburgh Penguins and the Washington Capitals) and in the Canada-Russia game last week. It’s hockey’s equivalent of Kobe-LeBron or Federer-Nadal. Promoting that rivalry is key to restoring the NHL brand; it worked for the NBA with Magic-Bird.

But even if you do all of that, the fact is that most Americans just aren’t interested in hockey. It still has a reputation as a Canadian or European sport. That’s fair, considering a significant amount of the players are Canadian, Russia, Ukranian, Swedish, and so on. so how do you solve that problem? I say send four teams up north, giving us an even split of 10-10 between the U.S. and Canada, and make those the two conferences. That way, every Stanley Cup final turns into a grudge match between the two countries. Players will be fighting for national honor. Wouldn’t you think more Americans could get behind that?

It’s unlikely that any of these changes will actually be made, I admit. but the fact is that the NHL needs to do something. the league is hurting. I have a friend in Phoenix who is a huge fan of any and all professional Arizona teams. he loves the Suns. he loves the Cardinals. he even loves the Phoenix Mercury, the current WNBA champions. but when I asked him if he could name a single player for the Coyotes, not only did he say no, but he told me, unsolicited, that he despises hockey.

When loathing is the first emotion your league inspires, you know you have a serious image problem.

But the league has just been handed a golden opportunity to step back into the national spotlight. this is their big chance to do something. If they don’t, we might not hear from Miller and Crosby again until the 2014 Olympics in Sochi, if even then.

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Go Green for Lent?

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

Today is Ash Wednesday and many families will begin their Lenten journey by giving up meat and usually something else.

Often times folks choose to give up things like chocolate, French fries or a bad habit.

It seemed for a while when I was in college it was more in vogue to do something for Lent (like charity work) as opposed to giving something up.

But now I am hearing a drumbeat for giving up things for Lent that will help the planet. Even the leaders of the Church of England are getting involved calling for a “Carbon Fast.”

From the Telegraph UK:

“Senior bishops are calling for a cut in personal carbon use for each of the 40 days of Lent. Their list of ways to achieve this includes eating less meat, flushing the toilet less often and cutting vegetables thinner so they cook faster.”

“But one of their tougher challenges is to give up technology such as television, mobiles and iPods for one day. The “Carbon Fast” , organised every year by development agency Tearfund, even suggests giving up technology for a day every month of the year and giving the money to charity.”

“The Bishop of Oxford, the Rt Rev John Pritchard, said giving up technology would help people to think of others less fortunate than themselves.”

” ‘Lent is a period when we should look at how we live our lives,’ he said. ‘Giving up chocolate is a symbol of that but giving up technology is a more serious way of looking at the issues that face us as a global community. it is a statement [of solidarity] with a world that does not have that ability to communicate the way we can and a reminder to us that perhaps we may have got beyond ourselves in terms of our own consumption of technology. We have galloped forward so fast maybe we have out-run our global responsibility in doing that.’

While some may scoff at a “Carbon Fast,” the traditional giving up of meat actually does help the environment. you hear all the time that if families cut meat from their diets even just once a week they would reduce methane in the world, which would in turn help global warming. Also eating less meat would reduce the space needed for the animals and could in theory allow it to return to vegetation which would help reduce greenhouse gases.

Here are two stories with stats on that:

Other sites are listing other environmental choices for things you can give up. Here’s another list from thedailygreen.com: 9 things you can give up to help the Earth

So lots of questions today:

Will your family give up something for Lent?

Are you giving up something Lent?

Will you ask your children to give up something for Lent?

At what age do you require your kids to give up meat or something else for Lent?

Do you ask the kids to not eat meat as well on Fridays? (The Catholic Church doesn’t require kids to give up meat until they are 14.)

How do you feel about Going Green for Lent and giving up something that will help the environment as opposed to French fries or chocolate?

Will you participate in the “Carbon Fast?”

What do you think of the reasoning this it help us think our or less fortunate brothers and sisters around the world, as well as use less energy and save money?

Editor’s Note:

Is your child affected by test tampering?

last week, the state announced that several schools in Georgia are suspected of tampering with answers on the state’s CRCT. while the schools flagged in the investigation have come under scrutiny, the students are arguably the ones impacted most. We’d like to tell their story. if you are a parent who believes that your child may have been affected by suspicious scores and you’re willing to talk with a reporter at the AJC, please contact Gracie Staples at gstaples@ajc.com or Kristina Torres at ktorres@ajc.com.